Showing posts with label Margam Park wedding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Margam Park wedding. Show all posts

Wednesday, 3 July 2013

Wedding garters, Brides and Bacchanalian guests.

      Many brides have a pretty garter under several petticoats and the yards of lace, satin, taffeta or brocade that go to make up a wedding dress. Often they are blue, they are sometimes borrowed but they are rarely flashed at the photographer until late in the evening when the party spirit takes hold.

A bride's garter, too pretty to be hidden
Another bride with a pretty garter 





























     I’m often surprised how rarely guests turn weddings into bacchanalian revels. However there are a colourful few who prove the exception to the rule from unruly guests to disgraceful fathers of the bride. and then there are one or two bridegrooms, so anxious to join their mates and party that the first dance simply doesn't happen, of course there are no pictures of that! 



About to tuck in to his breakfast.
This stand in for the deceased father of the bride was taking his duties seriously.

Wedding, what wedding? Brides father with his mates, preparing to make his speech


Did I really say that?
The new bridegroom can't believe his ears but the bride is not surprised.
Judging by the look on his new son in law's face whatever he said was truly unacceptable.

And a good time was had by all

There was a roaring noise coming from this lot but they were beyond speech.

When the groom is well over six foot he needs a lot of friends
     The best revelry pics often come from jewish weddings as the groom's mates hoist him on their shoulders in the course of dancing the hava nageela. I'm not sure that anyone has to be drunk for this but I think it helps.

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Friday, 28 June 2013

Wedding dresses back to the Future





Bride and groom sharing a private moment in the back streets of Nerja in southern Spain
     The back details of a bride's dress are sometimes very beautiful but there are other reasons for photographing backs: one of the reasons is clearly seen above, the further away the bride and groom move from friends, family and photographer the more the illusion of privacy is created and the photographer can record intimate moments without intruding.
       
Bridesmaids displaying enviable tans and rosebuds in their hair       
      Another reason for photographing these backs apart from their beautiful tans is it's an ideal way of recording the scenery and visually establishing where the wedding took place. Yes it could be Italy, but the bride will always be reminded that she was in fact in Spain.



Bridal couples in the beautiful grounds of Margam Park have plenty of space for walking


         Back home in England or Wales, the weather does occasionally prevent bridal couples from wandering too far from their wedding celebrations for fear of a soaking.

An umbrella can be handy if it rains all day, even if the bridegoom doesn't know what to do with it
      My first years as a photographer were not spent surrounded by gorgeous dresses and party people on their best behaviour at a wedding, but on the mean streets of South London before the developers moved in and raised their profile and status. Local newspapers were great training grounds, like repertory theatres for actors, lots of opportunities to practice your craft.
      I first got taken on, as a staff photographer, by my local paper, the Balham and Tooting News,  many years ago (largely because the lovely editor knew that taking on a woman would annoy his  cocky, macho-male incumbent who was, at the time, holding him to ransom over which jobs he would or wouldn’t do, particularly in the evening and at weekends).
         The poor dear man imagined that a woman would be more malleable. Ha! 
         He warned me that if I didn't take the job there would be no more freelance work because with two staffers he couldn't justify the cost.
         I was very much afraid I wouldn't be able to cope. I loved taking photographs and had closely studied a correspondence course on what newspapers want and how to present stuff to editors (no internet in those days, no emailing a couple of frames to the news desk and ringing up to harass the picture edit later) but my professional experience was limited to shooting a few teenage love stories in a freelance capacity, for “My Guy”, placing occasional articles in magazines, and six months working freelance for that same paper.
         So my first dispatch to a football match came as a shock to both of us.
       In a way it was fortunate that the match was a non-league event at Tooting and Mitcham because I hadn’t a clue where to stand, sit, kneel or what the game was about. I found a spot by the goalpost and was soon chatting away to the goalkeeper who didn’t really seem to have much to do.
          When the game hotted up and play came down our end of the pitch my power winder came into it’s own and I shot an entire reel of film (36 frames). However when the ball went into the net, a large sweaty bloke covered in mud (perhaps the captain) hurtled towards the goal and suggested to the goalkeeper that something other than the ball would be kicked if he didn’t keep his mind on the game. At this point I retreated to the side lines.
      Twenty minutes later I had regained my courage and was happily snapping away, running up and down the lines behind the linesman.
      History doesn’t relate what the referee said to me because fortunately I can’t remember it!
         I would love to say that I took wonderful pictures that day but history does relate what my editor said:
           “Patsy, this is useless, you’ve got nothing but the backs of their heads”. 
          At the time it was a lesson well learned.
But what doesn't work in sport can add an extra dimension to wedding photography.


A beautiful dress in the courtyard of this hotel in Seville creates a lovely design for an album



       
      

            

Friday, 1 March 2013

Laughter is.......




 Craig y Nos Parc after their wedding ceremony Anghared and Matin relaxing

       Having spent an entire week on my computer, closeted with the two romantic souls who married last week on Valentine’s day, I discovered that the gentle portraits I shot between the ceremony venue in Abercraf and the reception venue  at the Brecon Castle Hotel were not necessarily my favourite photographs of the day.

     I’m surprised at how often this happens and I imagine that possibly the couples themselves experience a similiar progression.  First checking out the images where they both look gorgeous and then maybe? preferring the laughter and shared special moments.


When it comes to carrying off his bride, no caveman could do it better.
 Beautiful Angharad pleased to discover her new husband has survived his efforts.

     The only problem with the computer is, it can't tell me what on earth Martin can have said to her
while the choir was singing to produce this burst of laughter.


I'm sure this has nothing to do with the words the choir are singing.


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Monday, 21 January 2013

Home and Away


21 January 2012

A bride looking beautiful in the Welsh snow
      It is January in the UK, and a cold and frosty January at that, and even the happiest of photographers, in the beautiful green countryside of South Wales, (currently under a  blanket of snow) have to be forgiven if their dreams are full of sunnier climes.


Destination wedding? As reality bites in South Wales?
      At this time of year, when planning your wedding, perhaps one of the first questions to ask yourself, is it to be at home or away?

     For many it’s a no-brainer, Mum and Dad (of either the bride and groom, or both) are not keen on flying and a destination wedding in the glorious heat of Antigua in November, January or March, is therefore out of the question. After all flying half way around the world to hold your wedding without your family would be a sad affair.


Romantic Galleon Bay, less fun without your family?
      But nowadays many of the flower children of the sixties and the jet setters of the seventies are quite old enough to have grown-up children of their own, and as they were the first generation to flee the chilly summers of the British Isles in their hundreds of thousands for the summer holidays of their youth, to many of them, the Mediterranean Costas are a second home and they are happier to hop on a plane to Europe than they are to take a bus or a train to Blackpool or St Ives. 
      The advantages of a Caribbean Island wedding are obvious, not only, the year round glorious sunshine, silver beaches and turquoise seas but also practical matters like the language spoken being predominantly English.
       The only disadvantage is the cost. There is no real way around the cost of flights to the Bahamas if you are committed to having more than a hundred guests at your wedding.

Destination Spain, Nerja on the Costa del Sol.
      Bringing things closer to home, it is probably worth investigating whether holding your ceremony in Spain or France would in fact cost you that much more than a similar venue in England and whether you can persuade your friends to combine your wedding with a holiday in the sun.

Thursday, 14 June 2012

Wedding Day Transports of Delight

Margam Park, in sunny South Wales, bride Hayley's arrival makes an impact 

How you arrive at your Wedding Ceremony is going to be very important. Whether your wedding venue is in Wales or Antigua and you choose to arrive by helicopter or Camper Van this is the moment when you the bride makes your first impression on your guests.



Marbella, Spain and beautiful bride Raquel arrives at the church
 Horse power in any vehicle is not really necessary. If you arrive in a vintage car, make sure it is not too special, you want it to frame your beauty, not compete with you for attention.



Wedding photography suspended in Killorgan, Eire
This is the kind of horse power that will get you into trouble on your wedding day!
        What matters on this special occasion is how you look and feel, no extra horse power and don't try a helicopter unless you've been in one before, ( this photographer goes a great shade of green in any small form of air transport).  Despite your Jimmy Choo shoes there is something to be said for just being comfortable.
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